Author Archives: Gary

About Gary

Gary Bajaj is a technologist, nutritional therapist and visionary.

Hope

Hope is like a drug; one takes it and forgets one’s sorrows. Like any other drug, when the intoxication wears, one feels miserable. Hope is more dangerous and addictive than any other drug, because it is legal, encouraged, free and … Continue reading

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Security

We constantly seek security, whether it be money in the bank, owning as opposed to renting or job security. There is safety and comfort in permanence, or at least what we perceive as permanent. There are four factors to consider … Continue reading

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Acceptance

Is destiny pre-written or is the course of our lives in our own hands by virtue of our power of choice? I believe destiny is the default setting, and choice is our ability to customize. Life is like a game of … Continue reading

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Baby Steps

When life is out of control, hopelessness sets in and one wonders how will life go on, remember the answer, “One day at a time”. As long as one is motivated, the key to accomplishing any task that is overwhelming … Continue reading

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Worry

If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it’s not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in … Continue reading

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Special Someone

The concept of having one “special someone” in one’s life is a recipe for devastation that would result from when such person is no longer in one’s life. Instead we need to expand that circle to include everyone, even connecting … Continue reading

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Happiness

I believe that the purpose of life is to be happy.  Happiness comes from: (a)  accepting unhappiness as being a part of life, not hating or fighting against it. Hate being a negative emotion causes more unhappiness. The fact that … Continue reading

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Grow up, men

Women taunt men at large that they never grow up. Some make clever remarks like, “Age – few women admit theirs and few men act theirs”. If men were to grow up mentally, they would no longer need things to … Continue reading

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Rights and Duties

If there is fondness and trust in a relationship, care and respect follow. It is like breathing, one does not even have to think about it, let alone make an effort. If, for example, a man commits an indiscretion, the … Continue reading

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Legalized Child Abuse

It is “normal” practice for separated or divorced parents to share children, much like time-sharing of real property. This practice is “justified” by the belief that children are resilient and as such will “adjust” in time to being shunted like chattel between … Continue reading

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